I am getting more and more perturbed by people who are wondering when I am going to discontinue the breast for my babe! Even Mike asked me yesterday why I was still breastfeeding Colin. And then took Colin to the doc yesterday as he had a fever for over 24 hours and even HE was surprised I was still nursing. Like what is the problem here people??? He is 15 months old... not 3. Not like this is interfering with his development or setting him up for socialization and separation problems. Being breastfed into the toddler months has never as far as I know, caused a kid severe problems later in life. His peers do not taunt him. Other babies are not bullying him and calling him names like "boobsucker" or "tataface". He drinks from a bottle and a cup and for his own comforts, he still requests the boob. I am able to work, and fit it in with our evening and morning routine. He is getting the best possible and I get confused nosey people inquiring when I plan to stop.
When I explained to Mike what my personal reasons were for allowing Colin to guide his weaning he understood. I told him that he does not have to worry.. his boy will not be looking under my top when he should be out with his friends playing.
This time with my last baby has been a joy. It is what I consider MY reward for carrying him all those months. I get to hold him close and feel the greatest possible connection. I get to provide him with nourishment and security. He gets these elsewhere as well, of course. He eats every food I ever put in front of him.
The next person who asks me though.... is gonna get a big mouthy "Noneya!!!" Breast is best.
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